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Title: My Views on Religion
Post by: SirCmpwn on May 25, 2011, 08:10:54 pm
Hello,
My religious views (or lack thereof) have been offending several people on this forum and IRC channel lately.  I'd like to clear the air and get my views out in the open, in complete form.
If you are easily offended, please stop reading.  I take no responsibility for offending anyone in this post.  Keep that in mind.  You read at your own risk, and complaints about the presentation are less likely to be taken seriously.  It is difficult to word this in the first place, let alone without offense.
Also, I'd like you to think twice before you rate down any posts here.  Think about how I could have worded this any differently, first.  I don't want to offend, like always, but this topic is tender.

I'd like you to humor me for a moment and think of something.  Many of you are familiar with The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster (http://www.venganza.org/).  If you aren't, the readers digest is this:
Spoiler For Spoiler:
The Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster makes fun of other religions, specifically Christianity, by proclaiming that the entire universe was created by the Flying Spaghetti Monster, who created humans out of a meatball.  He supposedly graces us every day with his "noodley appendage."  His prophets are pirates, and they are considered "supreme holy beings."
Obviously, this is outlandish and no one could possibly believe it to be true.  Now imagine if this creation story were several times stranger, and you still knew it wasn't true.  Then imagine if the vast majority of the world's population - billions of people - believed that story, or something similar.  And not only people today, imagine that people for thousands of years have believed that and similar stories.  Imagine if someone really, truly believed in the Flying Spaghetti Monster - and that the rest of the world shared in that view, and that you were one of an extreme majority that believed in [fill in your beliefs here].  Now add to that the fact that virtually every crime you can think of and dozens of wars have happened in the name of the Flying Spaghetti Monster.  And that every Sunday, you're bored out of your mind with no friends around to hang out with because they are all off worshiping this deity.

Now, you'd probably be pretty pissed off at this religion.  Everyone seems to follow it, and you know it to be completely false.  Not only that, people get offended when you call them on it.

This is how I feel about every religion, ever.  Your religion offends me.  I don't know how to say it nicely.  I just want to come out and say it.  So please stop getting all defensive towards me when I make a small comment about religion.  It's all I can do to not post an essay about how wrong you are, your delusional state of mind, etc.  Take it as a blessing that I don't go completely ape shit and post about how much your religion sucks.  I've never targeted an individual's beliefs (even though some people see it as a personal hit).

I don't have to respect your religion - in fact, I don't.  But I do tolerate it, and please accept that as enough.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: DJ Omnimaga on May 25, 2011, 08:13:55 pm
Well... my issue is if you bash people for having a different point of view than you or for believing in something you don't, or if you post in a topic about religion without being careful about offending people. This is where I and some people can have a problem. Example, your last post that did that had a -5 rating and the entire admins of Omnimaga opened a discussion about the possibility of a staff demotion due to past warnings.

I myself could care less about religion and God, but it doesn't mean I think it's stupid to believe in something like God. Everyone has the right to, and otherwise it's only bigotry, IMHO.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: SirCmpwn on May 25, 2011, 08:14:58 pm
Well... my issue is if you bash people for having a different point of view than you or for believing in something you don't, or if you post in a topic about religion without being careful about offending people. This is where I and some people can have a problem. Example, your last post that did that had a -5 rating and the entire admins of Omnimaga opened a discussion about the possibility of a staff demotion due to past warnings.
That post specifically was some of my inspiration for writing this one.  I just want to clear the air and get my full opinion out, instead of bits and pieces.  I never aim to offend, I just speak my mind (which is a curse sometimes).
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: ruler501 on May 25, 2011, 08:17:51 pm
Well... my issue is if you bash people for having a different point of view than you or for believing in something you don't, or if you post in a topic about religion without being careful about offending people. This is where I and some people can have a problem. Example, your last post that did that had a -5 rating and the entire admins of Omnimaga opened a discussion about the possibility of a staff demotion due to past warnings.
That post specifically was some of my inspiration for writing this one.  I just want to clear the air and get my full opinion out, instead of bits and pieces.  I never aim to offend, I just speak my mind (which is a curse sometimes).
I do much the same thing and many people I know think I'm a completely evil person for it.

I might agree with this, but I do know how easily many religious people get offended so I usually try to avoid the topic and sugar coat my words whenever I get into it.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: Netham45 on May 25, 2011, 08:23:42 pm
Your views on religion are the same as anyone else's, in that you'll make no friends telling them to other people, and acting like you're better because of them.

Also, your comparing of a foundation for peoples' lives to a spaghetti monster is out of line. You can't honestly claim that you tolerate something you're degrading and belittling.

I suggest that you keep your religious views and offense to yourself. If you must degrade others' ways of life, try to do it in a way that's not claiming that they are believing in a flying spaghetti monster.

Personally, I am athiest too, but I believe that comments like this don't do anything beneficial. You'll just piss people off and alienate yourself.

I just want to clear the air and get my full opinion out, instead of bits and pieces.  I never aim to offend, I just speak my mind (which is a curse sometimes).
Speaking your opinion is one thing, degrading others' opinions is another.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: SirCmpwn on May 25, 2011, 08:26:53 pm
Also, your comparing of a foundation for peoples' lives to a spaghetti monster is out of line. You can't honestly claim that you tolerate something you're degrading and belittling.
Can you think of another comparison that makes the same kind of sense?  To me, all forms of religion have the same level of truth.

I suggest that you keep your religious views and offense to yourself. If you must degrade others' ways of life, try to do it in a way that's not claiming that they are believing in a flying spaghetti monster.
I never claimed that anyone believes in a flying spaghetti monster.  In fact, I said the exact opposite.

Personally, I am athiest too, but I believe that comments like this don't do anything beneficial. You'll just piss people off and alienate yourself.
When I have my opinions degraded and shot down constantly, I won't just take it lying down.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: ruler501 on May 25, 2011, 08:28:47 pm
What the Spaghetti monster proves is that its impossible to disprove a religion like christianity. It was not supposed to be compared to others religions like you did Sir. I agree with your overall point, but I have to agree with Netham that you presented it badly.

I know this is a very sensitive topic that people are easily offended by so If I were you I would just try to avoid it. It just causes problems to get into discussions on it. Because you can never disprove their point

EDIT:

When I have my opinions degraded and shot down constantly, I won't just take it lying down.
This is just proof that it is never a good idea to get into a discussion on religion except with people who believe extremely close to you and even then you keep it to just that subject. Discussing religions you don't believe in just causes problems
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: SirCmpwn on May 25, 2011, 08:29:30 pm
If you are easily offended, please stop reading.
I mean it.  You read at your own risk.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: Netham45 on May 25, 2011, 08:31:49 pm
Your opinions are only shot down because of how you present them. Stating your opinion isn't bad. It can create conflict, yes, any opinion can, but when you present it rudely and offensively, you're going to get poor reception, and people are going to shoot them down.

A comparison is not necessary, people will understand what you mean when you say that you don't believe in religion. What you're doing is the same thing as a religious person trying to convert you.

Also, you didn't claim people believe in a spaghetti monster, but you said that Christianity is the same thing and that believing in that is just as bad. That is what I meant.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: ruler501 on May 25, 2011, 08:31:56 pm
Its not that they are easily offended its that this is a subject that will almost inevitably offend people. And it is especially true for how you presented it.

EDIT:
Your opinions are only shot down because of how you present them. Stating your opinion isn't bad. It can create conflict, yes, any opinion can, but when you present it rudely and offensively, you're going to get poor reception, and people are going to shoot them down.

even if you present these ideas nicely they will still get down because most people have deeply rooted beliefs and they are almost impossible to convince otherwise. many people respond very angrily at any attempt to unroot their ideas.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: SirCmpwn on May 25, 2011, 08:35:28 pm
Your opinions are only shot down because of how you present them. Stating your opinion isn't bad. It can create conflict, yes, any opinion can, but when you present it rudely and offensively, you're going to get poor reception, and people are going to shoot them down.

A comparison is not necessary, people will understand what you mean when you say that you don't believe in religion. What you're doing is the same thing as a religious person trying to convert you.

Also, you didn't claim people believe in a spaghetti monster, but you said that Christianity is the same thing and that believing in that is just as bad. That is what I meant.
Understand that to me, they are the same thing.  They both have about the same level of truth in my opinion.  Why is a flying spaghetti monster any more or less likely than an invisible man in the sky?  How would you suggest I make my point without a comparison.  I feel like the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the only comparison that really can get a theist to see my point of view.

Its not that they are easily offended its that this is a subject that will almost inevitably offend people. And it is especially true for how you presented it.

EDIT:
Your opinions are only shot down because of how you present them. Stating your opinion isn't bad. It can create conflict, yes, any opinion can, but when you present it rudely and offensively, you're going to get poor reception, and people are going to shoot them down.

even if you present these ideas nicely they will still get down because most people have deeply rooted beliefs and they are almost impossible to convince otherwise. many people respond very angrily at any attempt to unroot their ideas.
First of all, due to my extreme warnings about the possibility of being offended by my post, I don't take any responsibility for people being offended.  To say this as nice as possible, you were warned, and ignored the warning.

As for a nice presentation, ruler is right that no presentation is a nice presentation in the eyes of theists.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: Netham45 on May 25, 2011, 08:40:33 pm
Understand that to me, they are the same thing.  They both have about the same level of truth in my opinion.  Why is a flying spaghetti monster any more or less likely than an invisible man in the sky?  How would you suggest I make my point without a comparison.  I feel like the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the only comparison that really can get a theist to see my point of view.

Offensive statement:
I'ma let you in on a secret, no one cares about your opinion, just like you don't care about anyone else's on the topic.

even if you present these ideas nicely they will still get down because most people have deeply rooted beliefs and they are almost impossible to convince otherwise. many people respond very angrily at any attempt to unroot their ideas.

You could have said that you don't believe in religion and think that it's false. I did that quite easily by stating that I'm athiest.

First of all, due to my extreme warnings about the possibility of being offended by my post, I don't take any responsibility for people being offended.  To say this as nice as possible, you were warned, and ignored the warning.

As for a nice presentation, ruler is right that no presentation is a nice presentation in the eyes of theists.

Your warning is nothing. If you don't take responsibility for offending and belittling people, in -MY- opinion, you have no place on the CoT team here.

Also, clumping large groups of people into one stereotype shows the same lack of tolerance as everything else you've posted.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: ruler501 on May 25, 2011, 08:41:44 pm
Your opinions are only shot down because of how you present them. Stating your opinion isn't bad. It can create conflict, yes, any opinion can, but when you present it rudely and offensively, you're going to get poor reception, and people are going to shoot them down.

A comparison is not necessary, people will understand what you mean when you say that you don't believe in religion. What you're doing is the same thing as a religious person trying to convert you.

Also, you didn't claim people believe in a spaghetti monster, but you said that Christianity is the same thing and that believing in that is just as bad. That is what I meant.
Understand that to me, they are the same thing.  They both have about the same level of truth in my opinion.  Why is a flying spaghetti monster any more or less likely than an invisible man in the sky?  How would you suggest I make my point without a comparison.  I feel like the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the only comparison that really can get a theist to see my point of view.
I would bet against them ever coming to your side which is one reason I keep trying to make a point that discussions like this(well on religion between people who believe different things) are pointless. the roots are very deeply planted in 90% of people you'd talk to and nothing will ever change that.
I do not think you should be rated down for this post, but I do think it should not have been posted or at least mores sugarcoated.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: DJ Omnimaga on May 25, 2011, 08:43:05 pm
The issue is that the way you are telling your opinion about religion makes it like if people who are religious should feel guilty of offending you. Also I think the following was uncalled for:

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Your religion offends me.  I don't know how to say it nicely.  I just want to come out and say it.  So please stop getting all defensive towards me when I make a small comment about religion.  It's all I can do to not post an essay about how wrong you are, your delusional state of mind, etc.  Take it as a blessing that I don't go completely ape shit and post about how much your religion sucks.  I've never targeted an individual's beliefs (even though some people see it as a personal hit).

I was PM'ed asking if this topic should be locked or not, and I think I'll say yes to the person. In the future on forums you visit I would suggest that you maybe avoid posting in religion-related topics, if you can't restrain yourself from offending others.

Also, Omnimaga rules are rules. Even if you put a warning in your post saying don,t read further if you are afraid of getting offended, it still doesn't grant you the right to post offensive material in the first place. (except maybe the humor section, with a NSFW tag, although even then it's still limited). Let's keep Omnimaga a friendly place please.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: Ashbad on May 25, 2011, 08:47:31 pm
Understand that to me, they are the same thing.  They both have about the same level of truth in my opinion.  Why is a flying spaghetti monster any more or less likely than an invisible man in the sky?  How would you suggest I make my point without a comparison.  I feel like the Flying Spaghetti Monster is the only comparison that really can get a theist to see my point of view.

Offensive statement:
I'ma let you in on a secret, no one cares about your opinion, just like you don't care about anyone else's on the topic.

Agreed.  I personally can't respect your argument if you can't respect other's.  It would be a different story if you would be a little bit more open minded.  Offensive: You're acting like a stereotypical extremist atheist.  Please don't simply slander view of others, even if you do give a warning, if you want to break from this unfair mold.  I would personally like to think otherwise of you than you being so extreme, you I wish you would dilute your hate towards religion a bit, or at least dilute the appearance of your hate.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: leafy on May 25, 2011, 08:59:58 pm
Invisible Pink Unicorn.
That is all.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: DJ Omnimaga on May 25, 2011, 09:00:36 pm
Eeems asked me if he could lock this topic, but he went to eat Supper before getting to read my response and did not answer back, so I'll lock the topic for him.

I think religion/politic debates should be avoided in the future if people can't respect other people's point of view. Doesn't anyone remember what happeend with the Bin Laden thread and last year with the three other religion topics? Debating that stuff on the Internet is prone to attract problems or even trolls.
Title: Re: My Views on Religion
Post by: ztrumpet on May 25, 2011, 09:35:31 pm
I know this was locked, but I still want to put my thoughts out there:

Drew.  I understand your basic premise for the argument and do not in any way commend or view you differently because of your religious belief(s).  However, as Netham said you did not bring it up in a way that would provide for insightful and analytical discussion; you brought it up for debate and hatred.  This is why (in my opinion) people rated you down.  I personally, would have liked to give you a +1 on the first post because you spoke your mind, and I believe you should be rewarded for it - but then I read on.  As you got deeper into the post it changed from your views to your views of others, and this is where you blew it.  Specifically, this line:
I don't have to respect your religion - in fact, I don't.  But I do tolerate it, and please accept that as enough.
In fact, you do have to respect your religion if you expect others to respect your own religion.  It's as simple as this: if you give people your respect, they should respect you.  Until you learn to abide by that, others will not respect you as much as they would if we looked at you by your coding-skill alone.  Please, Drew learn from this. If you accept, tolerate, and respect others' views, beliefs, and morals, they will do the same to you.