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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #15 on: May 02, 2013, 07:20:21 am »
Yes, I agree with flyingfisch.
I can understand that it may not be easy, and I think you know very well that your parents only have good intentions for you. When I think about it, if I would get kids later on in life, I'd probably also put a blocker on the computer.  And trust me, it's not easy to find a good proof blocker, which is probably the reason that you have several.

I think that probably the main thing your dad is trying to avoid is inappropriate material. And to get that really good blocked it probably requires him to block all those other stuff.

Maybe you could talk with you dad and ask him to unblock specific sites, to make it easier for you(rather that blocking specific sites)?

It's better to have a useless computer than go to H E double hockey sticks with a useful one, eh? :P


Yeah, but there's a difference between a reasonable content filter like my parents used to have at home (filtering illegal material and ye ole digital humpin') and senseless word filtering. Come on... Blocking pages by scanning the _text_ on them? I don't see how that could ever be productive.


That said, making stuff like this illegal doesn't seem like a very good idea IMO: 1) such a law is impossible to enforce 2) parents have the right to pass on their own ideology while shielding their children from certain influences. I'm not too fond of this idea either, but the topic is highly controversial and outright removing those rights would not go down well. Besides, this matter is far from black and white; my opinion isn't that clear-cut either.

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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #16 on: May 02, 2013, 07:30:57 am »
Word filters can be annoying and unreliable. I mean when you can't even browse a news site because its radio lists a song with the F word in its title even though the rest of the site is perfectly fine, then there's a problem. I even remember some Omni people who could browse Omni fine, but if XVicarious sweared on OmnomIRC, the site automatically got blocked.

As for site-based filters, they aren't always reliable either. I know Omni was flagged as an adult site before (probably because "Z80 assembly" contains the string "a**" or some idiots wanting to have fun false-flagging us).

I just don't get why parents check what their kids browse while they're online more often and monitors the site history list (make sure your kid can't clear its content), instead of just blocking sites that might be clean.

As for my rule idea I understand it might be hard to enforce, although the thing is that since 2007 or so, the usage of filters and restrictions on minors have been getting increasingly abusive. I don't remember things being this bad before.
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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #17 on: May 02, 2013, 08:28:32 am »
I just don't get why parents check what their kids browse while they're online more often and monitors the site history list (make sure your kid can't clear its content), instead of just blocking sites that might be clean.
Even that is disrespect to the kids' private life. When you're over 13 and your parents can read all the chats you made with your friends or gf/bf, this can be quite embarrassing. But yeah, blocking stuff like p o r n is a normal protection for the younger of us, again not for 13-18 who are in the middle of puberty and need independance (yeah I know this doesn't mean anything but you know what teens like to do) and probably have enough judgement to know what they can do on internet or not. ;)

Also an easy way to enforce that kind of law is just to make parental filter distributing illegal and voila.

In Dapianokid's situation, the content filtering is abusive and he should have a talk with his parents to know why they restricted him all of a sudden.

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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #18 on: May 02, 2013, 09:22:21 am »
My dad is saying he might content-filter me... again.

He's also currently throttling Steam to the point where I can't even log in (at the network level, so I can't do anything about it)

I just hope that he doesn't content-filter me. I like my interwebs.
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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #19 on: May 02, 2013, 09:36:18 am »
My dad is saying he might content-filter me... again.

He's also currently throttling Steam to the point where I can't even log in (at the network level, so I can't do anything about it)

I just hope that he doesn't content-filter me. I like my interwebs.
Just become an 31173 |-|4><0|\* and bypass his filters. :P Just kidding but I always managed to go through the limitations my parents imposed to me on their computer so they ended up taking my keyboard when I got mine and giving it to me for limited times. This time is gone now hopefully.
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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #20 on: May 02, 2013, 09:37:09 am »
I still can't get past the throttling on Steam, though...

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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #21 on: May 02, 2013, 10:41:02 am »
Did you try using a proxy or a VPN ?

Also that might work for you Dapianokid.

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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #22 on: May 02, 2013, 10:47:51 am »
Yes, I agree with flyingfisch.
I can understand that it may not be easy, and I think you know very well that your parents only have good intentions for you. When I think about it, if I would get kids later on in life, I'd probably also put a blocker on the computer.  And trust me, it's not easy to find a good proof blocker, which is probably the reason that you have several.

I think that probably the main thing your dad is trying to avoid is inappropriate material. And to get that really good blocked it probably requires him to block all those other stuff.

Maybe you could talk with you dad and ask him to unblock specific sites, to make it easier for you(rather that blocking specific sites)?

It's better to have a useless computer than go to H E double hockey sticks with a useful one, eh? :P


Totally agree, especially the last line.

Yeah, but there's a difference between a reasonable content filter like my parents used to have at home (filtering illegal material and ye ole digital humpin') and senseless word filtering. Come on... Blocking pages by scanning the _text_ on them? I don't see how that could ever be productive.

So we agree, a lot of content blockers are not effective. But that is no reason to outlaw them.

I just don't get why parents check what their kids browse while they're online more often and monitors the site history list (make sure your kid can't clear its content), instead of just blocking sites that might be clean.
Even that is disrespect to the kids' private life. When you're over 13 and your parents can read all the chats you made with your friends or gf/bf, this can be quite embarrassing. But yeah, blocking stuff like p o r n is a normal protection for the younger of us, again not for 13-18 who are in the middle of puberty and need independance (yeah I know this doesn't mean anything but you know what teens like to do) and probably have enough judgement to know what they can do on internet or not. ;)

Also an easy way to enforce that kind of law is just to make parental filter distributing illegal and voila.

In Dapianokid's situation, the content filtering is abusive and he should have a talk with his parents to know why they restricted him all of a sudden.

13 is still young. And I don't agree with you at all that teens can decide for themselves what they can and can't do on the internet. I am a teen as well as you, and I know several times when I wished my content blocker was a little more restrictive, looking back at the situation. ;)

And sure, you can prevent the distribution of content blockers, but then parents will just take the computer away altogether. Which they have a perfect right to do.

And if you are going to restrict parents rights to protect, shield and punish their kids, you should outlaw the Amish as well for making their kids grow up totally disconnected from technology and the outside world.

Now, I understand this all may be inconvenient for kids, but trust me, there is more to life than calculator forums, and which would you rather have, unlimited access to the internet during your teen years, or a clean life in the years to come? I, at least, would prefer the latter.

« Last Edit: May 02, 2013, 10:49:23 am by flyingfisch »



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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #23 on: May 02, 2013, 10:54:42 am »
I never said I was against the fact that parents have their rights, just against abuse and preventing kids to have hobbies. And I'd like a clean life afterwards, too, but I don't see how internet would prevent me from that.
And I don't want content filters to be illegal, I was proving that it's not really hard to enforce kids' freedom on the internet.

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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #24 on: May 02, 2013, 11:00:40 am »
I never said I was against the fact that parents have their rights, just against abuse and preventing kids to have hobbies. And I'd like a clean life afterwards, too, but I don't see how internet would prevent me from that.
And I don't want content filters to be illegal, I was proving that it's not really hard to enforce kids' freedom on the internet.

Ah, ok.

And I have accidentally come across things in the past I wish I hadn't, and I actually set up a content blocker for myself. So that's why I totally agree with parents censoring their children's internet.

Just as a side note, I do NOT agree with a government censoring the rights of its citizens. That's a totally different thing.

Not saying I don't wish content blockers worked better, just saying I understand a parent that tries to restrict their kid's access.



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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #25 on: May 02, 2013, 11:03:18 am »
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As for my rule idea I understand it might be hard to enforce, although the thing is that since 2007 or so, the usage of filters and restrictions on minors have been getting increasingly abusive. I don't remember things being this bad before.
I think that that is sadly due to inappropriate things getting more accepted and more added everywhere.
The real problem is this. They should make P-word illegal. ;)
Even that is disrespect to the kids' private life. When you're over 13 and your parents can read all the chats you made with your friends or gf/bf, this can be quite embarrassing. But yeah, blocking stuff like p o r n is a normal protection for the younger of us, again not for 13-18 who are in the middle of puberty and need independance (yeah I know this doesn't mean anything but you know what teens like to do) and probably have enough judgement to know what they can do on internet or not. ;)

Also an easy way to enforce that kind of law is just to make parental filter distributing illegal and voila.

In Dapianokid's situation, the content filtering is abusive and he should have a talk with his parents to know why they restricted him all of a sudden.
Out of personal experience, I know that 13 is too young to be left independent. Although a person may have it's privacy, if the kid has a problem showing what he has been doing, he probably wasn't doing something perfectly OK.

If I would get a kid, I might give his more independency from age 16 or above, when real maturity comes imo.
(And if my kid wouldn't be mature enough in my eyes then I'll extend the time). This however doesn't mean that I'm OK with it that he'd be doing BAD stuff on his computer.

@Pimathbrainiac: If your parents block stuff, you should NOT try to bypass it, but talk with your parents about it.
You should submit to their final word, no matter if you like it or not.
(Imagine we'd only obey and submit to our parents when we're okay with it...)

Also, I think I should also point out an point that seems quite important to me. It appears to be generally though that once you're 18 you don't have do honor your parents or respect them and you leave them. This IS wrong thinking.
A kid has to take care of his parents(even of his grandparents) and should only leave when the parents want it or marriage separates you from them.
But even when married or living elsewhere, you should respect your parents and obey them in the good. And instead of considering sick things like euthanasia, you should be there when they're old and can no longer take care of themselves just like they did to you.

Just wanted to get that out, since that's seemed quite important to me.


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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #26 on: May 02, 2013, 11:08:27 am »
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As for my rule idea I understand it might be hard to enforce, although the thing is that since 2007 or so, the usage of filters and restrictions on minors have been getting increasingly abusive. I don't remember things being this bad before.
I think that that is sadly due to inappropriate things getting more accepted and more added everywhere.
The real problem is this. They should make P-word illegal. ;)
Even that is disrespect to the kids' private life. When you're over 13 and your parents can read all the chats you made with your friends or gf/bf, this can be quite embarrassing. But yeah, blocking stuff like p o r n is a normal protection for the younger of us, again not for 13-18 who are in the middle of puberty and need independance (yeah I know this doesn't mean anything but you know what teens like to do) and probably have enough judgement to know what they can do on internet or not. ;)

Also an easy way to enforce that kind of law is just to make parental filter distributing illegal and voila.

In Dapianokid's situation, the content filtering is abusive and he should have a talk with his parents to know why they restricted him all of a sudden.
Out of personal experience, I know that 13 is too young to be left independent. Although a person may have it's privacy, if the kid has a problem showing what he has been doing, he probably wasn't doing something perfectly OK.

Same here.

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If I would get a kid, I might give his more independency from age 16 or above, when real maturity comes imo.
(And if my kid wouldn't be mature enough in my eyes then I'll extend the time). This however doesn't mean that I'm OK with it that he'd be doing BAD stuff on his computer.

Exactly. For some reason some people seem to think that maturity is somehow a license to do wrong. And just because you are mature does not mean you should view mature content. THAT should be illegal.

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@Pimathbrainiac: If your parents block stuff, you should NOT try to bypass it, but talk with your parents about it.
You should submit to their final word, no matter if you like it or not.
(Imagine we'd only obey and submit to our parents when we're okay with it...)
Sadly, I know many kids who only submit to their parents if they like it. Otherwise they find ways around it. And in one instance a kid I know actually died because of it.

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Also, I think I should also point out an point that seems quite important to me. It appears to be generally though that once you're 18 you don't have do honor your parents or respect them and you leave them. This IS wrong thinking.
A kid has to take care of his parents(even of his grandparents) and should only leave when the parents want it or marriage separates you from them.
But even when married or living elsewhere, you should respect your parents and obey them in the good. And instead of considering sick things like euthanasia, you should be there when they're old and can no longer take care of themselves just like they did to you.

Just wanted to get that out, since that's seemed quite important to me.


Agreed, agreed.


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Just as a note to other members, the reason I have not been very active on omnomirc over the last few months is because of the swearing that goes on there. I only feel comfortable talking to certain people because some other members swear almost at the drop of a hat. It's disgusting. The F word should be censored on omnomirc, IMHO.
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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #27 on: May 02, 2013, 11:48:32 am »
I try to talk to them about it. My mom is fine about this stuff, but my dad is a control freak.

I won't try to get past content-filtering unless Dad blocks Omni or something crazy like that, (still hoping he doesn't do that) and there is no way to get past the Steam throttle D:
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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #28 on: May 02, 2013, 12:04:33 pm »
I try to talk to them about it. My mom is fine about this stuff, but my dad is a control freak.

That isn't for you to decide. You obey your parents because they are your parents, and you have respect for them, not necessarily because you think everything they do is fair.

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I won't try to get past content-filtering unless Dad blocks Omni or something crazy like that, (still hoping he doesn't do that) and there is no way to get past the Steam throttle D:

You can only ask him to unblock omni, but if he doesn't, he probably has a good reason, and you just have to accept that.



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Re: You've been great, folks!
« Reply #29 on: May 02, 2013, 02:58:46 pm »
This is one of the most productive discussions Omnimaga has ever had.
I could very easily hack my way back into full, unrestricted access, but that's not the point. I made a promise NOT to do something that I blatantly, deviously, set out to do, with an elaborate plan, even! I broke a rule. I went behind my dad's back, after he trusted me with this computer (Huge leap of faith) to own... So, honestly, I can't do anything but be thankful for what he allows. Slowly, but surely, as has already started happening, restrictions will be lifted. I'm STAYING at Omnimaga, that's for sure.

Seriously, what is the point of rehacking the computing if I'm going to get caught (the man's a genius) and then restricted further? The point is to teach me NOT to indulge in restructive habits or things (Specifically, the lucritive business that makes up 75% of all data on the internet. We're mostly guys here, so whatevs.), so that later in life, I won't destroy myself or those around me. I agree with his decision, honestly. The point is CERTAINLY NOT to beat my interest in computers down so much that I stop caring, and the point is not to make me feel bad, and it's not even a punishment. It's... restriction. Guidance. That I have to prove I'm capable of being responsible enough to learn from. I obviously wasn't , but now I have to learn how to be.

By the way guys, SHUT UP! Stop trying to tell others how to hack the restrictions on  internet! Look, if there are restrictions put in place, THEY ARE THERE FOR A VERY GOOD REASON. My parents know their sh*t. I trust them to do what's best for me. I'm not trying to undermine what they're doing. In fact, I'm sitting behind them helping them remove objectionable content from my home computer. I'm ashmed of what I'm doing.

DJ_O, you said that the best way to ensure safe browsing is to only check AFTER something bad may already have been done. Once somebody sets their mind to "Ohhh internet goodies! I want moar!", a simple "hey don't go there" is not going to be enough. You HAVE to set restrictions in place for the times when you SIMPLY CANNOT KNOW what your child is doing. I'm sorry, but live monitoring and access restrictions are the best way to go. As a child proves himself responsible not to SCREW UP (c whutt I did der? screw.. hehe...) , those restrictions are lifted. And he can enjoy a nice cup 'o Java.

Do not doubt my adept ability to hack. Doubt my ability to do what's right. Teach me to be better, not more devious. Give me God, not more foolishness. It's not a matter of how I get around it, it's whether or not I decide to. Anybody who WANTS to get around the love and care that parents put in place, is an idiot. I wouldn't want to know them. I think a parent who cares that much is already an above-average parent. The restrictions they put in place do not reflect the craziness or strictness of my parents, it reflects the person they restrict. So, the fact that they became this strict should reflect just how naughty I was being, not how mean they are. It's LOVE they are treating me with.
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